Social Uncertainty Hat 5

When you travel to other countries, you may have to get used to new social situations.

Few listed situations can be yours ?

Being unable to get to know the people who live there or make friends with them
Let’s say going into a group talk when you don't know the language or cultural references can be scary.
How to deal with ?
Small steps can help. For example, talk to one person at a time in the diner, class, or at a student event. After that, talk with bigger groups.
To break the ice, talk about things you have in common, like sports games, campus organizations, or classes.
Even if you're nervous, say yes to invites. Getting better at it will take time.

Having trouble with words, jokes, or small talk
Sometimes people may be silent when they don't understand humor, snark, or slang.
How to deal with:
It's nice to ask for more information because most people care more about looking interested than like they understand.
Make a "slang list" on your phone and look at it often.
To learn about tone and context, watch stand-up humor, YouTube channels, or home TV shows.

Worry about mistakes, stereotypes, or unfair treatment based on culture
People may self-censor because they are afraid of being judged because of their country, dialect, or cultural practices.
How to deal with:
Always keep in mind that mistakes are just that—misunderstandings. They don't always mean bad things.
You should be yourself, but you should also know the rules in your area if you want to build stronger ties.
Give some kind, polite ways to deal with stereotypes if you ever come across them.

Things you can do every day to feel better about yourself
Join a foreign or multicultural student group to make it safe to talk about personal things.
Think about volunteering or joining campus groups to meet new people on a daily basis.
Make it a habit to practice introducing yourself in different settings until it comes naturally.