Cultural Awareness 101 Hat
Knowing about cultural differences and how to avoid them
Moving to another country means entering a culture with rules, ways of talking, and expectations that may be very different from your own. Misunderstandings can happen, but if you're aware of them and open to them, they can be chances to learn instead of problems.
How People Talk to Each Other
People in the U.S. value direct communication, which means they don't have to "read between the lines" to understand what someone is saying. For instance, when a professor says, "Submit by midnight," they mean midnight, not the next morning.
Some cultures, on the other hand, use indirect or polite hints more often. Adapting to these tips can help you avoid getting confused.
Engagement and Communication
Strangers often engage in casual conversation with one another. For instance, cashiers often greet customers with, “How’s your day?” Even Though Polite, Cashiers do not hope to hear life stories.
Greetings : People also have different ideas about what is acceptable physical contact. Some cultures may light handshakes or mild hugs as greetings, while others may use light bows or gentle nods.
Rules for the classroom and the workplace
Professors and managers often want people to ask questions and debate. It shows that they are interested, not rude. A student in one class disagreed with the professor's point of view, and instead of getting angry, the professor praised their ability to think critically. Everyone on a team project is expected to contribute equally. If someone is quiet, they are often seen as not being involved.
Dining and daily etiquette
In the US, tipping is customary and typically falls between 15 and 20 percent of the total bill in restaurants. In other countries, this practice is either non-existent or not customary. There is a case of overseas students whom I saw intentionally opting out of tipping, which left the server feeling offended.
Also, people strictly follow the "first come, first served" rule and wait in line. People think it's rude to cut in line.
How to Avoid Getting Things Wrong
When uncertain, questioning is always preferred. There is no harm in saying, “Would you please elaborate?” than making assumptions.
Observe your peers during lessons, meetings, and other social gatherings and reflect on their actions.
Give yourself some time. It takes time to get used to a new culture, and it's okay to mess up.
I remember,
A friend of mine always called a professor "Sir," which was too formal. The professor laughed and said, "Just call me John."
Accepting cultural differences not only helps you avoid misunderstandings, but it also helps you grow as a person, make stronger connections, and feel more at home in a new place.
